I Decide for Me:
High School Program

Sexual Risk Avoidance Education: A 5 day (45-50-minute) OR 3 day (90-minute) presentation with relevant truth, compelling facts, and medically accurate data.

Day One
  • Introduction of Clarity and the presenter
  • Building intrinsic value – You Matter!
  • Identification of trusted adults, and the importance of having conversations surrounding these topics with trusted adults.
  • Understanding Communication and the role of close relationships (intimacy)
  • Important Definitions
    • Sexual Activity
    • Sexual Risk Avoidance
    • Sexual Abstinence
    • Sexual Abuse
    • Consent
  • CDC’s Critical Health Behaviors and Teen Sex Statistics
  • Community Resources
Day Two
  • Holistic Model of Health
    • Intellectual
    • Emotional
    • Social
    • Physical
    • Ethical
  • Sex is a Whole-Person experience
    • Applied through real life application
  • Reproductive Anatomy
  • Risk Reduction
  • Sexual Activity Consequences
    • STIs
    • Pregnancy
  • Fertilization and Fetal Development
    Day Three
    • Goal Setting
      • Planning for the immediate and far-off future
    • The Success Sequence for Poverty Prevention
    • Critical Analysis of Influences
    • Sexting and Sextortion
    • Pornography
      • Addiction
      • Neuroplasticity
      • Boundary Setting
      • Sex Trafficking 
      • Self-Regulation
    • Marriage 
      • Benefits
      • Positive Statistics
    • Physical Intimacy and Commitment
    • Benefits of Parenting
    Day Four
    • Boundaries
    • The 5 C’s of a Healthy Relationship
    • Unhealthy relationships
    • Identifying abusive relationships
    • Universal Human Trafficking Education 
    Day Five
    • The Marriage Bed Skit
    • Boundary Setting and Articulation
    • Physical Intimacy and Commitment
    • Self-Efficacy:
      • Learning Voluntary Sexual Restraint Skills
      • Emotional Regulation
    • Learning and Practicing High Risk Behavior Refusal Skills

    I Decide for Me: High School Booklet

    I Decide For Me: High School Homework

    I decide for me: high school Video on Fertilization and Stages of Fetal Development

    I Decide For Me: High School Entry and Exit Survey

    Student and Family Resources

    I Decide For Me: High School Book References

    I Decide For Me: High School Presentation References

    *Each I Decide for Me (IDFM) program uses anonymous, matched entry and exit surveys to confirm changes in attitude, knowledge  and intended behavior change for the purpose of measuring the program’s effectiveness. 

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